Thanksgiving has to be my favorite holiday of the year. Unlike Christmas (which I love!), there’s not an expectation to decorate, prepare, shop, spend, wrap and sparkle. In fact, it’s such a shy holiday that I don’t think much about the day until it’s right upon me. This is a perfect holiday for a procrastinator like me, who takes life one hour at a time. I can show up with a bottle of wine, whip up a quick dish and wallah….Thanksgiving is accomplished.

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But the real reason I love this day, is that we all take this time to consider what we are thankful for. In the hubbub of life, we stop and for just a day, think about our blessings.

So here is the “Thanks. Giving. Challenge.”  I know you’re all busy and are most likely mentally checked out for a 4-day weekend. The last thing you want is homework, but hear me out because this is a simple ask. I want you to take the concept of the word “Thanksgiving” one step further and actually GIVE THANKS.

  1. Make a list of 6 people you are thankful for 
  2. Next to their names, write why you are thankful for him/her
  3. One at a time, reach out to that person via text, email or phone and tell him/her that you are thankful for their presence in your life and why.
  4. Wish them a happy Thanksgiving.
  5. Move on to the next person.

The end.

I started this challenge earlier this week and not only thanked two fierce women for being inspirations in my life, but I also gave them a sussy.

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So if you’re feeling frisky…don’t just thank, also give. You can do that on your own (send them a fall flower arrangement!), or by nominating them for a sussy. You fill out the form, we’ll take it from there and will have something to your nominee within the week.

To be part of this challenge, you don’t have to tag #thesussyproject or submit nominations. You don’t need to require your friends to say something nice back. I didn’t ask for this to become a chain letter! You just have to remind these individuals that they are valuable to you and on this particular holiday, tell him or her that you are grateful. If you want to let us know you’ve taken the challenge, tweet us @thesussyproject. But this isn’t about us – this is about you.

This is a gentle reminder that everyone loves to hear when they are making an impact in your life. Don’t let this year’s holiday pass you by without TELLING them.

 

 

Last week, we received a nomination for the lovely couple, Debbie and Steve. The nominator asked to be anonymous so throughout the sussying process, we had to watch our Ps & Qs to make sure the two didn’t know who had thought of them. I will say this to you, D & S,….this person thinks very highly of you both.

As per our protocol, I reached out to Debbie and Steve, alerted them of the nomination and introduced The Sussy Project to them both. Per our nominator’s instructions, we sent them a gift card to Target to help with upcoming baby costs. And upon receipt, Debbie responded with the below. Since this mirrors much of what we heard from our nominator, I will let you hear their story through Debbie’s words:

Thank you so much for your email last week letting me know that I was a recipient of a “Sussy.”  You are to be commended for starting such a worthy project!  I wish I could thank both the nominator and you in-person.  My family is so grateful for all of the support we have received throughout our ordeal.  We have been on the receiving end of many compassionate acts and hope to be able to return the favor at some point down the road.
 
This was very unexpected and a great surprise for me on my husband’s normally scheduled chemotherapy day.  I appreciate being chosen.
 
Just a bit of background…my husband and I were happily married in June of 2011.  We were both “late-bloomers” and this was a first wedding for both of us in our late 30s.  In December, I gave birth to our amazing baby girl, Poppy.  Just a few months ago, in June, we were shocked to learn that I had early-stage breast cancer.  A double mastectomy was scheduled for July 17.  Just when we thought that we had things under control, as I was hooked up to the IV about to undergo surgery, we learned that I was pregnant with the second child we had wanted.  This was certainly good news, but not particularly the timing that I may have chosen :) .  My operation was rescheduled, and in my second trimester on August 22, I had a double mastectomy.  It was during the two weeks prior to surgery, that my husband started experiencing strange and non-specific symptoms that were troublesome.  To make a long story short, after several trips to MedCheck, an chest X-ray, ultrasound and CT-scan, he was called to get to the ER to treat blood clots in his lungs, just a short week and a half after my surgery.  We were shocked to learn that the blood clots were only the first horrible symptom of Stage 4 pancreatic cancer.  Since then, life has been a whirlwind.
 
During the hardest time in our lives, it has often been little things that make us smile…a card from a long-ago friend, an email from a forgotten acquaintance and surprises from organizations like The Sussy Project.
 
Thank you for making our day and for thinking of folks like us who may need a gentle reminder of goodness, caring and compassion in the world. 
We are grateful!

 

When you feel like life keeps kicking you while you’re down, or that the black cloud never leaves above your head, think of Debbie and Steve. Think about their beautiful (and growing!) family and the fact that both parents are fighters. Taking care of one child, prepping for another. Chemo therapy sessions. Surgery. I can hardly imagine how out-of-control life must feel for them.

But yet something as tiny as an email or card, or even a small gift card to Target can remind them that there are people pulling for them. Loving them.

So readers, you have homework: This week, make an effort to reach out to someone you haven’t in a while. Touch base with that friend who lost a parent or grandparent a few months ago. Check in with that person struggling with finances. Ask that down in the dumps coworker to coffee. You never know how much a little gesture could change their day.

And if you have some spare time, read up on Debbie and Steve through their blog: laswells.blogspot.com. Send them well wishes and if you are the praying type, include them in yours tonight.

Thank you to our nominator and our recipients for being incredible humans. And for reminding us about perspective.

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Please consider nominating someone that could use a smile in their day! http://thesussyproject.com/nominate-someone-as-a-recipient/

Though our posts and sussies have slowed down recently, we are still hard at work in our effort to surprise people with kindness.

Last week we received a nomination from Trena about her friend, Devon. Trena told us:

“Devon is funny, hardworking, helpful, and friendly! She’s a hardcore derby girl and has a huge heart!

I’m not sure of the details, but I know she’s been having a rough time lately and could use a pick me up!”

Trena gave a great idea of a gift that would bring a smile to Devon’s face, but we weren’t able to make it work. So we went the easy route and sent Devon a $25 AmEx gift card so she could purchase something for herself. Within days, Devon posted on her own blog about her sussy experience.

sussy picIt’s feedback like this that reminds me of why this project exists. In the humdrum of life, it’s difficult to make time for things that don’t demand it. Work, home, family, friends…those things are easy to schedule for. But something like The Sussy Project is an add-on and unfortunately, it can slip through the cracks. This response from Devon only furthers my passion for keeping this project going….one sussy at a time.

Though there hasn’t been a steady stream of nominations coming in, that certainly doesn’t mean that sussying stops {because sussies make the world go round, right?!} In fact, sometimes it takes a bit of a lull to make you appreciate the amazing people out there in need of recognition. Bobbie is one of those people. As a wife, a mother, and a career-woman in a highly respected position, she seemingly has the world on her shoulders. But her hard work hasn’t gone unnoticed. Her selflessness has caught the attention of her friends, family and coworkers, specifically Patricia, who wrote us the following email.

 

Bobbie Ramirez is someone that deserves to be honored so greatly that mere words do not fully encompass the enormity of her selfless behavior. Bobbie is a Unit Supervisor at the Victoria District Parole Office in Victoria, Texas. I currently serve on her unit. Since the moment I met her, Bobbie has been an endless source of information, caring, joy, laughter and love. Our office has been hit by extreme staff shortages. (2 of our officers have in excess of 170 people each). Bobbie supervises all of us and I am constantly shocked that she doesn’t burst into flames from the stress with which she is constantly dealing. Last Christmas she introduced the word sussy to me and some other officers by getting notepads with each officer’s name at the top. She is constantly giving of herself to others and never asks for anything in return. Our staff shortages have seen her canceling vacation plans (multiple times), working 12 hour day and sometimes working so many days in a row that she can’t recall when her last day off actually was. Recently she has been hit even harder. A little over a week ago she lost her brother in law suddenly to heart disease. Yesterday, his wife gave birth to their daughter. Bobbie finally got away from the office for one of the most heartbreaking reasons…to help her husband deal with the loss of his brother. Yesterday she took another day off for what should’ve been a very joyous reason, the birth of her niece. Bobbie never asks for anything for herself. If anyone deserves to have something nice done for her…it’s Bobbie. For the last year I have seen her giving everything to her coworkers and her family. I would like to see her receive something for once. Thank you for considering a sussy for Bobbie.

 

With all the good she does, it unfortunately seems to be overshadowed by her recent losses. Our hearts are incredibly heavy for Bobbie and her family and we hope her brother in law lives vibrantly though the life of their new baby girl. Though not much can ease the pain of what she has endured, we at TSP certainly did our best to bring her a smile. She certainly deserves it! Patricia gave us recommendations for things that she felt Bobbie would appreciate, including cucumber soda from her favorite store, and even a pair of roller skates to help her get around the office faster! A very sweet thought. In the end, we decided to let Bobbie do the choosing and sent her a gift card to use at her discretion.

 

As we always do, an email was sent to Bobbie informing her of her nomination. We received an email back from Patricia the following day stating,,

 

“She came into my office yesterday afternoon and said that I’d made her cry.  I wasn’t sure what I’d done so I apologized. :/ Then she explained that she had just gotten the email from you and read what I’d said about her so they were happy tears. I told her that I meant every word I said and gave her a cucumber soda. :)

 

Life isn’t always puppies and sunshine. Stress, death, and frustration are realities. Things can often feel overwhelming. So when it’s hard to put things into words, I defer to song lyrics. And as a famous Motown band once sang,,

 

Now if you feel that you can’t go on
Because all of your hope is gone
And your life is filled with much confusion
Until happiness is just an illusion
And your world around is crumbling down, darlin

Come on girl reach on out for me
Reach out for me
I’ll be there with a love that will shelter you
I’ll be there with a love that will see you through

 

Thank you Bobbie and Patricia for inspiring this extremely timely sussy. Much love from the midwest to the Lone Star state!

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Last month, I had the honor of going to Costa Rica on my company’s Top Performer trip. One of the things I love most about the opportunity – other than just escaping the Indiana winter – is that I get to interact with my colleagues about things non-work related. As my husband and I were lounging around in the pool, The Sussy Project came up. My colleague DP, and his wife Susan, told me about their daughter, Matti. She is a gorgeous high schooler who just happens to have a hearing impairment. But the real story, and the connection to The Sussy Project, was about Allison. When I returned from the trip, we had received a nomination for Allison for a sussy. Here is what DP wrote:

Our daughter, Matti, is a special kid, who is strong, beautiful, and smart, but has difficulty communicating given her hearing impairment, and is on a bit of a ‘different track’ than most other students at Loveland High.   

Allison is popular, a varsity athlete, and a great all-around person.  Since Matti arrived at Loveland as a Freshman, Allison has gone out of her way to include Matti in ‘EVENTS’ like homecoming pre-gatherings, to simple things like an invitation to sit at her table at lunch.  This has all been done with the best intentions, and with nothing but unconditional want to make Matti feel included.  Matti, and we, have appreciated every effort in this regard.  

 If there were more “Allisons” around, we’d all be in a better place!

 

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 Allison and Matti at Homecoming this year

It’s incredible to consider the age of these young women and what a paramount time in their lives it is. For Allison to include Matti the way she has, simply because she is a good person and likes Matti, shows so much confidence, leadership and compassion. We are honored to have been introduced to Allison and were really excited to Sussy her.

DP came up with the great idea to send Allison a gift card to Target so she can purchase some “off to college” items. We reached out to Allison and let her and her parents know of the nomination and to look out for the sussy.

Here is what Allison said in response:

Receiving the Sussy Award was such a surprise, and I am so thankful to have been recognized by such a lovely family like the Pooles!  Little do they know that Matti has impacted my life as well.  She is the sweetest and most loving girl that you will ever meet.  She is always happy. :)  This special trait of hers brings out the best in me.  Matti has also helped me to see the world from a different view point because of her hearing impairment.  I love spending time with Matti, whether we’re just chilling out or dancing like no one is watching at homecoming!  I can’t wait for prom this year, Matti!! :)

And her lovely parents wrote to us too:

As parents, we are extremely proud of Allison.  Not necessarily because of what she has accomplished in her young life, but rather because of who she is as a person each and every day.  She is a special and thoughtful  individual who genuinely cares for others unconditionally.  Deliberately, and at times unknowingly, with her actions Allison reminds us about what is most important in this world.  And for that we are truly blessed. –Mary Beth Kluge and Steve Kluge

We love this story for a variety of reasons – just one of them being that we were introduced to two pretty spectacular high school girls. But in addition, when I consider this story in relation to all the ones we hear about how bad high school has gotten for teens: bullying, cliches, peer pressure. Though high school wasn’t a treat for me, I can’t imagine going backwards and doing it over in this day and age. It’s a story like this one – of Matti and Allison – that reminds us there are great students doing wonderful things. There are confident women who are kind and compassionate. And it’s those people that will become the leaders of the next generation.

I hope this story gets shared with other kids in high school. I hope they see that the best way to get to big places is by being kind.

As Kurt Vonnegut says….

“Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you’ve got a hundred years here. There’s only one rule that I know of, babies- God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.”

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It’s fitting to write this post on Valentine’s Day when yesterday, Indiana took a major step in the right direction in recognizing all love. For those that haven’t been following along, there has been a massive political debate in our state. An amendment, HJR3, was proposed to strengthen the gay marriage ban already in existence. Essentially, this measure would amend our state constitution to not allow gay marriage or civil unions in the state of Indiana. And the organization fighting this amendment, is called Freedom Indiana.

About Freedom Indiana

We are a statewide bipartisan coalition of businesses, faith leaders, civil rights and community organizations, and individuals united to defeat HJR-3, formerly known as HJR-6. This anti-freedom amendment duplicates existing law and would permanently ban all protections for same-sex couples and their families and remove existing protections for unmarried Hoosiers.

And the woman behind Freedom Indiana? Megan Robertson. She and her organization mobilized opponents of HJR3 Indiana to stand up for equality, for love and for the rights of everyone in this state. They encouraged us to write and call our congressmen and senators. To show up to the state house in support. To protest this hateful bill that would have made Indiana a state that doesn’t stand for love. She fought for every gay and lesbian in our state and yesterday, it paid off. She essentially worked herself out of a job!

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I remember being in Oxford England with my good friend Roberto in 2002. We were talking about religion and politics. And we talked about gay marriage. Roberto asked me if I thought we would see gay marriage legalized in our country, in our lifetime. Both of could hardly imagine that this discrimination would go on for 30, 40, 50 more years and we both agreed that we’d see massive change in the coming years. Though we aren’t there yet and our state still has a long way to go, we have  made big strides in the right direction just this year. And a lot of that is do to Megan and Freedom Indiana.

For all of those reasons, she was nominated for a sussy anonymously earlier this week, and here is what we emailed Megan:

You were nominated for your tireless work in defeating HJR3. Our community is better with you in it, fighting for equality and fighting for love. So please accept this sussy as a thank you from all of us who have been a part of your movement. You are inspiring. You will received an email from Starbucks shortly with your eGiftCard. We know this is just a small token of gratitude but we hope that it makes you smile.

And despite all that was going on in the state house this week, she found time to write us back:

What a great project and idea.  I checked back through your website and was really left speechless by some of the reasons other folks “got sussied”.  There are so many people out there doing amazing things for others and it is easy to lose track of how great people can be when you spend every day in the hustle and bustle of a campaign.  So for me, the real sussy is less about the gift card (though I will use it!) and more reading about the other people who were nominated.  What I’m doing really doesn’t compare to what a lot of those people do every day. 
 
But to whoever nominated me, thanks very much.  I’m sure you are someone who has been active in our efforts and that is the real reason we have been able to be as successful as we have been so far.  Thousands of people across this state have stepped up and decided to do something.  And because of that, we’ve been able to influence policy in our state in a way that really hasn’t happened in a very long time. I’ve never seen anything like it and am so excited to have been able to be a part of this incredible effort.  
 
Thanks, 
Megan
Please join me in thanking Megan for what she has done. Send a tweet to @meganrobertson letting her know how grateful we are for her work on this campaign.
And spend this day loving those around you. Love is love.
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When I received the following nomination I realized it was a story after my own heart strings. I married a man who has a passion for climbing mountains and it is a passion that is either engrained in a person or it’s not. The gentleman mentioned in the nomination is someone who is awe-inspiring, someone who motivates you and someone who makes you realize “Maybe I can do that”. But, the woman behind the scenes is the true “unsung motivator” to all of us. She married a man who had a passion, too. And she clearly supports him and loves him through it all. Today we recognize all of those people who do a lot of that “behind the scenes” work for those they love.

Cheryl Cutting sent us this nomination:

I’d like to nominate Ellen Weihenmayer for a sussy! Ellen is the wife of renowned blind adventurer, Erik Weihenmayer. She represents, for me, so many of the unsung heroes in this world. She is the ‘pit crew’, the “behind the scenes” Atlas holding up the ‘world’ so that her husband can go out and do all the good he does in the world. She does a lot of the really hard work – runs the business, is mom to their children, serves in her community and also does a lot of good, impactful work in her own right, but it is never seen. However, her doing all the ‘invisible’ things she does means that Erik can go out and visibly impact and change the paradigm for people living with disabilities in the world today.

We did some research on Erik and were in awe of all the things he accomplishes. And yet on this day, we get to honor his “rock.” So we sent Ellen flowers and told her about the nomination and what The Sussy Project stands for.

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After Ellen received her flowers I reached out to her and her response made you realize why she was nominated in the first place:

 Hello Rachel. I received my lovely tulips the other day and everyone has been asking about them. It’s such a nice award. Thank you very much.

I call this kind of award a “quiet person’s award.” Quiet people need loud people who need quiet people in their lives. My husband’s kind of loud. He’s loud in the sense that he is living his extraordinary life so vividly that others can easily see and hear and be touched by his unparalleled achievements. Tapping his blind cane toward a door the other day, I saw someone open it for him. I watched as he entered. By the time I arrived at the same door, after locking our car doors, the man who had helped Erik said to me, “sorry.” The door had shut and I’d have to open it by myself. I didn’t mind. I’ve been okay about finding my own doors to open. It was the “sorry” that got to me. What is that? Sorry that his rules of helping others didn’t extend to me? Sorry my timing was off? I spent the evening thinking about his apology. Maybe the “sorry” comment was because he didn’t see me, or hear me in time to hold the door.  Maybe if he had just known I was there, he would have helped.

Cheryl called me a member of Erik Weihenmayer’s pit crew – the unsung “Atlas” going about my days quietly, efficiently; with Erik’s mission at the heart of my work. Setting an example for others to lead, Erik has transformed the image people once had of the blind. He is quite remarkable in his day-to-day no limits, no barriers mindset. I am proud to see the doors swinging open for him. But his success should not be an excuse to let my own life be less extraordinary.  Martyrdom has its own pity party.

We should all be met with people willing to open a door or two in our lives. My friend, Cheryl Cutting and this very cool Sussy award allows me the wonderful opportunity to assess my life. It reaffirms the notion that being just a few steps behind greatness isn’t good enough. In Erik’s words, REACH! I hope to do more of that.

Thank you so very much, for the encouragement.

Ellen Weihenmayer

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What a beautiful response and the exact reason why she deserves this nomination. Thank you, Ellen, for your inspiring words. Reading this made us think and ponder about all the people behind the scenes that live extraordinary lives and do incredible things, like Ellen. So here is our ask of you:

Take some time to look around you. You may think you have someone “obvious” to nominate – but is there some “Atlas” behind that person that could use a Sussy, too?

Recently, we received an anonymous nomination for Cheryl. This is what the nominator wrote us:

Cheryl tragically lost her lifelong best friend, Jamie, on December 22, 2007. Jamie was murdered by her husband just a few units down from Cheryl’s apartment. It was an obvious day of tragedy for Cheryl & everyone who loved Jamie, but also a day of tragedy for everyone who loves Cheryl.

Cheryl’s life continues – she is married and is a mother to 3 children. But so many of these milestones in Cheryl’s life are incomplete because Jamie is missing. The 2 of them shared in every monumental moment of each other’s lives: Marriages, Graduations, New Homes, New Jobs, etc. Jamie was there for Cheryl & Cheryl was there for Jamie. Very few women have friendships so dedicated and honest.

I recently learned about the Sussy Project & decided that I would nominate Cheryl to receive a random act of kindness in honor of the amazing friendship she had with Jamie & the tragic end to a wonderful friend’s life.

(What do you suggest for the sussy?): A margarita themed gift basket or something for a girls night like movie passes, Starbucks card, etc. – something for her to use with a friend; something that could help her make a happy friendship-based memory.

We can’t imagine how difficult it must be to tragically and suddenly lose your best friend. We of course wanted to brighten Cheryl’s day, honor the loss of Jamie and celebrate the nominator who is clearly a good friend as well. So we sent Cheryl a gift basket for a girl’s night in!

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Cheryl received the basket and responded with the following:

I did receive the basket… it was a very nice surprise!  It did make my week brighter, this time of year is difficult for me for several reasons and I looked forward to the basket after the email. Thank you and Thanks to whoever nominated me!

We hope that Jamie’s memory lives on and that new memories and new friendships are made.

—If you are interested in nominating someone for a sussy, please do so here!

Do you have a best friend? Would they drop everything in their lives when you needed them most? Around the holidays, we received a nomination from Allison for her dear friend, Kristin, who’s family and friends have done just that.

 

Kristin is my good friend who unexpectedly lost her husband in Feb. of 2013.  She has two young daughters and is now a single mom navigating this world without her spouse and the girls father.  She has been amazingly strong and positive in dealing with all aspects of this tragic loss.  She changed jobs because it would be better for their new family unit.  She has organized her finances so they all can stay in their home that they all know and love.  She has a lot of support of family and friends but has taken over being “the one” in charge of everything for their family.  Kristin deserves a sussy everyday and would like to nominate her for one.

 

We used one of our sponsors to send Kristin a Panera gift card that her and her girls could use on a rainy/ snowy day. Shortly thereafter, we excitedly received this wonderful response and subsequently learned much more about her story.

 

Dear Sussy Project,

Thank you so very much for my Panera gift card! My incredibly dear friend, Allison, nominated me. I was not aware of the Sussy Project until now and think it is amazing! It certainly made me smile when I received the e-mail letting me know of my gift. I cried when I read the nomination letter that Allison submitted. My husband died unexpectedly died of a heart attack last February at the age of 38. He ate well and exercised regularly so it was a complete shock. We have two daughters, ages 9 & 6, and to say this has been a difficult 10 months for us would be an understatement. Daniel was the best husband, father, and friend who made the most of every moment. However, what has been amazing through our devastation has been the compassion, generosity, and love that our family, friends, and community members have given to us. In the days immediately following Daniel’s death, Allison and other friends came to see me daily. Some days friends would just lay with me while I napped so I wouldn’t be alone. A group of guys came to clean up my back yard in the spring. Friends invite me out regularly to help keep me busy and remind me of the life there is left to live. My sister has moved in with me part time to help me with the day to day activities of life.  All of these people are the reason my daughters and I are surviving. They continue to remind us of the love that still exists in our lives and give us reasons to smile again. The loss of Daniel will be with us forever, but with the help of family and friends we are doing our best to continue to live making the most of every moment as he did and would want for us.

Thank you for creating the Sussy Project, what a fabulous concept!

Sincerely,
Kristin

 

Kristin’s story reiterates the importance of family and friends. We would be nowhere without them, especially during such difficult times. Never will this family forget about their loving husband and father, nor should they. From the sounds of it, he was a wonderful man. We are grateful that they are blessed with such caring people to help them through this tragedy. And we are also happy that our little sussy could shine some much needed sunshine on such a deserving family.

 

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* If there is someone who YOU would like to surprise with kindness, please nominate today.

We received the following nomination  from Trena for her friend Amy:

I need to nominate my friend Amy for a Sussy.  We used to work together and her office was my go-to hideout when something was bothering either one of us, and we spent more time than we probably should have lamenting over life’s issues.  Amy has had a tough year.  As the momma of three kids (two teenagers and a toddler) and a full-time employee, her plate and schedule would be overwhelming under the best circumstances.  But this year has not been the best of circumstances.  Her oldest and her youngest have both had pretty serious medical issues, some of which are still being worked out.  It seems she spends more time at doctor’s offices and the hospital than out (not including the one she works for!)  There is no one I could name that deserves a few minutes of “me time” than Amy.  With everything that has happened, sleep can come up short occasionally.  Please send her a Starbucks card, so she can enjoy a few minutes of peace and quiet, even if it is on her morning commute.

During this holiday season, hearing of this mom’s plight with her kiddos definitely pulled on our heart strings. We immediately sprung into action and emailed Amy a Starbucks gift card. Within hours I received the following response from Amy about her Sussy:

I had to sit on this for a few moments so it could sink it.  It’s not because I was surprised that Trena would do something like this, because I am not but I am surprised that Trena did this.  I am greatful for a friendship that probably never would have happened if another coworker didn’t have a baby and Trena covered the position.  I was terribly sad when she left our company but am so glad that we have the kind of friendship that we do.

She is right, I spend more time in doctors offices and hospitals than I care to mention.  I have 3 children that range from 15 down to 2.5.  The girls have had health issues in the past year that have kept me out of work, in hospitals and on the road 80% of my day.  As a single mom dealing with these issues and still trying to maintain a full time job, sleep is sometimes the thing on that “TO DO” list that I forgot to do.   My kids are my world and I would go to the ends of the earth to get them care that they need and deserve. 

Thank you to The Sussy Project and to Trena.  Because of you, my smile is a little more genuine today.

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We hope receiving the Starbucks gift card has allowed Amy a moment of reprieve and a few moments for some “Amy time”.

————If you know of someone you’d like to surprise with kindness, please nominate him or her today!————————

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